I don't think I will ever fully understand certain people, and why they choose to behave the way they do. You can make yourself appear pretty & perfect on the outside, but if you are shallow and nasty on the inside, it doesn't matter. I don't pretend to be someone I am not. If I don't like you, I will not be "fake nice" to you. I will not say "You're my friend" all the while saying cruel things about you on Skype. I know we are role playing children, but seriously, grow up!
I know it's hard, and we all feel that need to want to fit in sometimes. But if doing so will make you nasty too, it's not worth it. Take a stand or just walk away. Do not allow others to drag you to their level just so you can feel "popular" all the while claiming to be "Christian". I hope you feel better about yourself. I'm choosing to take a stand and not let your actions & cruelty affect me. I don't need to be in the "in crowd". I know who I am as a person and am happy in both lives. :)
<3 Evie Bebe
3 comments:
Hi Evie! You can post my name here. It's quite alright. I wish people like you who claim to not be affected by the actions of others would come to them directly and speak to them rather than just run away then turn to the good old "I'm ok doing this because I'm not naming any names" blog posts. However, since you've chosen this route, we'll take it.
For one thing, you should have stated all of the facts of the situation to which you are referring here: Namely, as a group, we were asking to to blend in the the group for a group project, and you were either ignoring us or refusing, depending on who asked.
The statement which hurt your feelings was not meant for your eyes. It was a dropped IM. I'm sorry if my words hurt you...ONLY because they were not meant for your eyes. However, speaking only for myself, I was irritated and frustrated at your non-cooperation with the team. Everyone else was helping in any way they could, except you. Was I right in what I said? Maybe not. Is that for you to judge? Not really. Does me saying something in an IM to someone make me not a Christian? FAR from it.
So, before you essentially accuse me of faking my spiritual beliefs...which I daresay I have likely held longer than you've been alive...you should think twice. I will tolerate people talking bad about me. If people do not like me, fine. But to call me a liar with no grounds, ESPECIALLY concerning my religious beliefs to which I have devoted my life, will not fly with me. As we say in the South, That dog won't hunt, honey.
Oh, and as far as telling people to "grow up"? Take your own advice, sweetie. If you act like a spoiled brat, people will treat you like one. Especially me.
Thanks,
Daisyrrose Guardian, aka Daisy Rose Villota Ontawl <3
"The statement which hurt your feelings was not meant for your eyes. It was a dropped IM. I'm sorry if my words hurt you...ONLY because they were not meant for your eyes. However, speaking only for myself, I was irritated and frustrated at your non-cooperation with the team. Everyone else was helping in any way they could, except you. Was I right in what I said? Maybe not. Is that for you to judge? Not really. Does me saying something in an IM to someone make me not a Christian? FAR from it. "
I would like to address the part above.
I personally have had some people come and tell me that it WAS not a joke from you and that what you said was what you ment. Further more, it does go to show your kind of inner character as a negative, rude, uncaring, and UNCHRISTIAN person. Evie did have a right to judge you on what you said because it was geared towards her. I am 100% certain that if someone made a comment towards you... you would judge to. Human nature, sweetie.
Moving on... I do believe this post wasn't 100% geared to you but the peoples butts you were trying to crawl up. So when you get far enough in please let us know if their shit stinks? I personally think it stinks worse then everyone else.
Yeah, I wasn't being a team player because God forbid I wanted to wear a pink tutu which just so happened to be in the same shade as the costume itself. The "kids" on the set could wear whatever, it didn't matter if they blended in or not, but a pink tutu, OMG a travesty! LOL
As for your "Dropped IM that wasn't meant for my eyes", the Christian thing to do would have been to just apologize. To the rest of your drivel, you do realize how much of a catty hypocrite you sound like don't you? Probably not. Anyway, again thanks for your comment. I will say a prayer for you when I go to sleep tonight. :)
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